There are some things in life that will make you develop a totally different perspective. The way you have been seeing life will suddenly become the factor to changing your life for the better and you will find yourself in a more comfortable position.
Getting your heart broken is good:
You will eventually realize that it is actually good to have your heart broken because in the end when you meet the right person, you will know how and what to be really thankful for. You will know that the experience has only made you smarter and wiser; not weaker.
People who treat you like shit will not change:
We all see memes on social media that ask people to let go of the people who treat them bad. That is because these people don’t change and they will continue to be who they are (unless they gain a new perspective on life). So let go of them.
The things that you worried about at 20 were so silly:
There is an endless list of things you used to worry about when you were twenty. Not having your arms waxed for instance or counting every single calorie that you consumed. It seems so silly when you mature.
Worrying about people who you think are better than you is of no use:
If you worry about other people more than you worry about yourself then something is not just right with you. You deserve better because the only person who is worth paying worth to is yourself.
You are better off with lesser friends than a big group of losers:
Life becomes so much easier when you stop worrying about the number of friends that you have on your Facebook list! You stop partying hard on weekends and let the toxic people fade away from your life once you realize the true meaning of friendship. Friends are supposed to make you feel comfortable and easier and not otherwise.
Failures are an inevitable part of life:
During 20s, a person does everything with the hope of making a difference to the world. Eventually you realize that making a difference in your own life is what matters most. Success is not always at hand. At times you have to reach it through failures.
You should call your parents more than you do:
When you start to settle down in life you can see the zeroes in the right side of the bank balance growing. That is when you realize that you have been losing your relationships, especially your parents, as work took its toll on you. Time to get that back!